The Art of Getting What You Want – Advice? Nah! Tip? Yes!
Author : Hemalatha
Hypothetically let’s imagine you had a magic baton that if you jiggle, shows a picture of your future. Would you accept it or toss it away? I believe for a fact that there is an existence of 2 kinds of people in this world : People who make things ensue, and the rest who pause for things to occur. The people who decide things to happen will twirl the magic wand, have a chuckle and gait away. To come and embark on their next adventure, scared or not! They see a picture of what they want and where they are heading to. For others who are waiting for things to occur, will instantly pull it over in 5 seconds, an entire lifetime of events would patent themselves on. Do you contemplate happiness out of it?
I have graduated over time that singing it safe is just a deception because our living is not exactly that. You can’t grow if you don’t risk your decisions; you don’t learn unless you fail! Having control over your life, irrespective of the happenings around takes you to the next step altogether. I hope everybody has that push within to achieve great heights, to form incredible stuff that will have life over the clock. But many fall because it’s tough but fail to think that it’s not impossible! Waiting for the right moment isn’t any wrong but resting your bum reasoning it out is the fault. Right opportunities never fall on your lap, except for a few blessed souls out there! All time’s right when you kickstart your work. Don’t pause for gears to be faultless, because they never are!
Les Brown once quoted “You don’t have to be great to get started but you have to get started to be great”!
Perfection is purely an impression we create to fake things that isn’t realistic. In turn, we begin to feel optimistic waiting for the perfect time to knock-in. Most efficacious persons I encountered weren’t with a silver-spoon, but were ironic in passion and fiery in their priorities. These potentials will take you places than any-other currency will. In short, passion gets you what you want and it really doesn’t matter whether you have a silverspoon or a steal one! All that pops from the heart, is frank and this paves possibilities. Passion gives wings to your dreams and energy for your vision to fly. When you become passionate of what you do, you discover it to be possible. Your wings will break the fences to achieve it since, true legitimacy flourishes from there!
Working hard and trusting oneself is the only mantra which makes you successful. Don’t idle your time deciphering the precise formula because it doesn’t lie anywhere. In short, counting your sweat eventually bears fruit. Never giving up on what you need is also vital. Being adamant with your dreams is one other quality that many innovators have. Self-Confidence blooms from within and it’s an art of appreciating who you truly are. Realizing you are the only one to trust you, it doesn’t take miles to reach the bar! Irrespective of innumerable voices you hear, the only voice you have to listen is ultimately yours.
Recognize you are fit to accomplish everything and anything you want. Again, there is a wall of difference between being confident and super-confident. Super confident destroys the fire within you and flies you in your fairytale. Being confident ignites the fire and keeps you to the grass, learn the difference my friend! Self confidence is about competing with me and super confidence is competing with your fellow-mate, choose wisely! Follow your instincts, they are never wrong! People like Dai Greene, Danny Glover and Vladimir Lenin had one thing in common that’s being focussed on their mark. Do you think they had no blocks? no distractions? All of them are warriors from Epilepsy!
Nadal once quoted, he exactly identifies where his next serve will be, time before it starts. He said, “Losing is not my enemy, fear of losing is my enemy”
Save your visions to yourself, your validation is of prior importance! Your conscious knows what you slay and what gives you satisfaction, don’t lose the trail of that voice. Play that game till it’s bored of losing to you!
Remember only dead fish goes with the flow – Unknown philosophy
‘Confidence‘ is something you create within yourself by believing in who you are. Tell us what you think about this article in the comment section below!!
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