A Inner Beauty is better than a Fair Complexion
Keywords:- Beauty, Beautiful, Fair Complexion, External Beauty, Beautiful Mind, Inner Beauty
Author: Ashi Dubey
As the time passes your physical beauty becomes faded. You have lots of wrinkles on your face as you become older but internal beauty, your personality, your behaviour, your attitude, your knowledge as well as your confidence is eternal, it does not fade with time.
INTRODUCTION
Someone really well said this thought that “Beauty” is not in the face but it is the light in the heart. In our common society, most people believe that a person who has a fair complexion should be considered as beautiful. This is the most common mentality, especially for girls. Most people believe that a girl who doesn’t have a fair complexion is not very beautiful and no boy is ready to marry a girl who is not fair enough.
There is much difference between looking beautiful and feeling beautiful. Fair complexion is about visual and superficial beauty. Complexion preferences vary from region to region like in South India people are naturally tanned due to the excessive-high temperature but they are happy with their complexion. The term beauty really refers to the ‘inner beauty and the inner beauty is based on your personality traits such as attitude and behaviour.
IS EXTERNAL BEAUTY MOST IMPORTANT?
But the people who believe these kinds of thoughts are right, are actually not beautiful at all, not internally as well as externally. The external beauty that most people consider the foremost priority is the beauty for a moment because it is superficial, it doesn’t attract you for a longer time.
Suppose a person has a very fair complexion just like the white colour. But she or he is so rude, so misbehaved and abuses or is not very social in communicating with you. If this person is beautiful, are you attracted to him or her?
The answer is not at all but why she/he has a fair complexion; then why you don’t attract him or her, why she or he is not beautiful? They are not beautiful because external beauty is happiness for a moment. It is a temporary beauty, the permanent beauty and the actual beauty is your behaviour, your manner, your personality, your self-confidence as well as your knowledge. If a person has all these things he or she will be the most beautiful person in the world.
MISS WORLD – PRIYANKA CHOPRA
Our Miss World Priyanka Chopra is not very fair as most of the Miss World is but instead of this, she won the title of Miss World. So after she won she asked the judges why they chose her for this big title. They answered so gracefully that they didn’t see the external beauty of a person. They only saw her internal beauty, knowledge, confidence and her personality which attracted them.
So it is not really important to be beautiful from the outside to become successful but it is important to be beautiful internally for your success.
But this time also we see on the matrimonial sites demanding fair brides and we also see advertisements promoting their products to become fair. I don’t why a person sells such a kind of product. A person is beautiful enough the way he or she is. We aren’t ready to accept this thing. Our real progress will really occur when we change our racist mentality. When we stop discriminating against people in the education, jobs or any other sector on the basis of their complexion.
How can we achieve the goal of getting rid of this Racist Mentality?
By spreading more and more education among the common public we can achieve this goal. Because education is the only key by which we can improve our mentality. Through this, we can change our perspective toward these things and be able to make the right decision about what is really wrong and right.
By creating awareness about this beautiful thought among people by giving examples of many successful people who are not really fair but they are very successful like Dr APJ Abdul Kalam, Priyanka Chopra and many more. To make them understand that fairness does not matter at all in your way to success it only needs your courage and your determination towards your goal.
By raising our voice against these fairness cream advertisements, or any source that is promoting any kind of racist thinking. Because racial discrimination is a crime and there are many laws made against this. You don’t have the right to discriminate or judge someone on the basis of their skin colour or their complexion.
By believing in your inner beauty you can achieve this goal. Because if we do not believe in ourselves, nothing will make us beautiful.
CONCLUSION
Beauty isn’t having a pretty face but is having a beautiful mind, a pretty heart and most importantly a beautiful soul. But still, there are many people who don’t understand this simple moral value and run behind a fair complexion. Everybody wants a fair person whether in a job or in advertisements. In India especially in the northern, eastern and western parts people are really obsessed with their complexion. We are beautiful the way we are because God has made us and everything in this universe made by God is beautiful as well as precious.
Some people who don’t believe themselves beautiful and lack self-confidence are totally destroying themselves by agreeing with other people’s views. Most of them use various harmful products for changing their complex under the pressure of society. Some of them apply injections on their face which are really painful and harmful to their body.
At the end of this article I want to say only this; believe in yourself that you do everything in your life nothing is impossible. With your knowledge, your passion, and your confidence you can cross every hurdle on the way to your success. Always consider yourself to be the best person in the world. Do not compare yourself with other people because everyone has their own unique qualities or capabilities. If you do so it will break you very deeply and keeps you away from becoming successful. Be positive in your speech as well as in your thoughts. If you have a beautiful mind everyone loves and respects you.
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