AUTHOR : VANSH AGRAWAL

I was on a call with Mr Vansh who is a college student but has very good communication skills. He told me some interesting stories from his past which transformed his communication skills. He told me his journey from being an introvert to an extrovert. 

So the story starts from his school life(10th class) where he was a very shy kid and didn’t use to talk to many people, just a selected handful of friends whom he used to talk to. Then in 11th he decided to break that silence within, in 11th a new bunch of students came to the class where everyone was unknown to each other.

First day of the class everyone was introducing themselves but he couldn’t in spite of the strong will because he thought he was not looking good that day. That whole day he kept introspecting his dressing, hairs and other unnecessary things which were not in his hand. 

The next day he dressed well, applied some good perfume and sat along with the new people having good eye contact with them but that day as well he couldn’t speak. This time the reason was if I spoke something useless people would judge me so I should wait until a strong point comes to my mind which will impart a strong impression on others but his wait never ended on that day too.

So our poor hero returned home and thought that why, why was he so tense? The answer was simple and quite foolish that what other students of the class, especially girls would think of him. So he was wondering what to do now and then a strong point came to his mind that from now I don’t have to impress but just express.

He told me that if I want to impress I would be carrying a huge bag of load on my shoulders and no one on this Earth can impress everyone. So one should always focus on expressing. 

The next day he went to school, spoke whatever came to his mind, had a lot of fun with other guys and made a lot of friends. Also he told me that you should be self confident about how you look as if you don’t like yourself in front of a mirror why would the world like you. You dress up the way you like, The point is that you should feel that you are looking good. This will enhance your confidence and body language. And the last point that you should not be afraid of others laughing at you. If you didn’t bother their laugh today a day will come when these same people will clap for you.

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